Frustration is a perfectly suitable means of expressing the role dynamics of a hotwife/cuckold marriage since for many wives, their marriage was one of sexual frustration for years before becoming a hotwife. Now it’s the husband’s turn to experience arousal without a true, satisfying release.
With her wrists bound to her ankles, her body unsupported by pillows and her face held upward by the belt around her neck, this pet is rather uncomfortable while her sex is being enjoyed. Such use of a pet purely for his pleasure while not allowing her to be comfortable or be permitted orgasm can be an effective punishment for her…or her cuckold. When she knows she’s being punished for her cuckold’s failure, you can be sure he’ll wish he’d been punished directly instead of it being transferred through her.
A beautiful girl pet readying a cock to mount her. It’s important to note that the man exercising her mouth and throat with his cock might be her Owner or perhaps a friend chosen by her Owner to participate in her training.
Nipple piercings are not only very sexy in how they better present and decorate the nipples, but can also be verrrry functional!
Pets needn’t misbehave or fail to meet expectations to receive such exercise; submitting to discipline and enduring the discomfort and humiliation of such an experience is a necessary and rewarding form of power exchange for both Dominant and submissive.
This husband may have been disciplined by his wife out of her own desire to assert herself or it could have been at the direction of their Dom.
Though I assume this is only discipline, the fact that he’s also securely bound could also indicate that he’s to be punished, meaning the redness is only a warmup and that the tender bits hanging there vulnerably will likely also be visited during this event.
Tying another man’s wife to their marital bed is certainly empowering and erotic, but even better is to have him do it for you - a sacrificial offering.
For me, the value of a submissive’s bondage is less in the limitation of mobility and more in the expression of trust it implies.
Many wives have little or even no experience in servicing the cock with their lips and tongue - giving such training in front of their husband is incredibly satisfying.
This is an exquisite capture of a woman, perhaps someone’s wife, expressing her submission. Such a work, especially of a submissive hotwife, should be hung with pride in a carefully selected place in the home or at least, framed and given as a gift to her Dom.
While discipline can be enjoyed at any time as an expression of dominant and submissive roles, punishment should obviously be spared for those times when submissives have blatantly disappointed their Dom.
Punishment is discipline delivered in such a way as to ensure it is not enjoyable.
Discipline, on the other hand, can be enjoyed 24/7 and is an integral part of what is often referred to as ‘training’ for a submissive.
One of the things I love about spanking is the ritual that can be created around the practice of it. When I choose to discipline a wife in this manner or, as I often do, choose to have her husband disciplined in this manner, a series of events begins to take place in a proscribed manner.
The venue describes where this spanking will take place. Choices include ‘OTK’ or, over the knee, a bench built for the purpose of spanking and other play, or ordinary furniture such as the back of a couch, stuffed chair or coffee table.
Most often I personally prefer a venue where I can ensure her comfort for making this experience both prolonged and pleasurable.
Spanking for some refers to only spankings applied by the bare hand, but it can also be a generic term for the application of force using a variety of implements besides the hand. This can include the back sides of hairbrushes, riding crops, floggers and paddles.
The subject of the discipline is responsible for retrieving any gear to be used in their discipline. While that could be as simple as having him/her retrieve a paddle or riding crop for me, it could also include gear such as ball gags or spreader bars. Upon return, the subject should disrobe completely before continuing. If gear such as spreader bars or ball gags are to be used, I will most often have the spouse assist with the fitting of that gear. Once all gear has been fitted, the subject assumes a spanking position over my lap or over the furniture selected as they’ve been taught.
Often assumed to be the ‘main course’ of the event, the application of the spanking, while enjoyable, is often more likely to be the foreplay to other types of D/s play or merely a prelude to intercourse. This is also an area where discipline diverges most from punishment. During the application phase of a discipline sessions, I’m much more likely to tease/pleasure her body ensuring her arousal is heightened as her discipline continues whereas for punishment, she would know only discomfort.
Discipline is as much about an expression of trust as it is an expression of submission; and as spanking isn’t only limited to being applied to the subject’s bottom, the expression of trust this way is even higher for couples new to this experience.
Above we see a wife being lightly flogged between her open thighs while the riding crop that was used on her bottom previously rests just inside her. It’s quite possible for women to orgasm during such discipline when properly applied.
Followup to a spanking may be to calm the intense physical and emotional response, it might be to soothe the reddened flesh of my subject - or it could sometimes be just an adjustment of current gear or introduction of other gear/toys before discipline continues in other directions.
Being spanked can be very intimate, emotional experience to start with, but when you add in the cuckolding aspect and appreciate that it’s not the husband spanking the wife’s bare, upturned bottom, you can easily appreciate how cuckolding can create powerful intensity in an already intense experience. For this reason, this is often what would be considered a more advanced stage of cuckolding and isn’t an experience a couple new to cuckolding would likely have unless with a very experienced Dom.
This goes both ways, too: not only is it incredibly intense for a wife to be spanked by her Dom in front of her husband, but I think it’s even more intense for a husband to witness this very physical form of submission. On more than one occasion, husbands witnessing their wife’s spanking discipline have spurted spontaneously without having touched their throbbing penis at all. This has happened more often in my own experience and among the experiences of others I’ve talked to than during the witnessing of intercourse.
Of course this does mean that the cuckold will have to be punished for spurting during play! In a case like this I will often offer the cuckold the choice of his punishment: submit to a physical punishment of having his ass paddled 40 times, or to have his balls lightly paddled 5 times - or, to give up being allowed to watch our couplings for the next month! Which would you choose..?
“To every action, there is equal and opposite reaction.”
I don’t think Sir Isaac Newton had this in mind, but it works for me…and for her, clearly.
A husband’s view over the shoulder of their Dom.
I’m more inclined to use cuffs on a wife, but some submissives have a rather strong preference (fetish) for certain bondage media, be that rope, chains or even pantyhose.
When a hotwife offers her submission to her lover, it’s a gift not only for him, but also for her cuckold.
I tend to speak most of the submission of the cuckold yet it is the submission of the hotwife to her lover which truly fuels a cuckold marriage. Such submission is often not very overt. For example, the most common forms of hotwife submission for her lover are such things as how she dresses for to please him or how she has trimmed or shaved her most intimate place to be what he desires.
What I wanted to say here is to extend a challenge to hotwives who have not yet offered overt submission to their lover to consider doing so. Such an expression of trust not only forms much deeper bonds between you and your lover, but also between you and your husband.
For a cuckold to witness his wife’s overt submission to her lover is to experience one of the most intense forms of cuckolding. Often this is because the cuckold knows you could never extend such submission to him and will only view such acts when your lover accepts these gifts from you and exercises them.
Some women who are dominant with their husbands worry that deferring to a man, even her lover, will weaken her position of dominance with her husband, but in reality, the opposite is true. The deeper a wife’s submission to her lover, the more fixed the D/s roles become between hotwife and cuckold.
In order for a bull to learn the role of a Dom and understand how to enjoy, guide and help a cuckold couple grow, the couple must extend that opportunity and they do so through their submission. This submission can take mental, emotional and physical forms. Beyond making changes in your outward appearance or behavior to suit your lover, learning new skills can also be considered submission: learning to suck a man’s cock and/or learning to deepthroat his cock; finding yourself eager to swallow for him if only because it’s something you would never do for your husband. Light bondage and spanking are also easy entries into overt submission. Having your cuckold watch as you offer your bottom for a spanking can be incredibly intense for everyone involved, but be quite mild in application.
The multitude of ways to express submission is well beyond the scope of this article, but to discuss your own situation to learn how to proceed, you can contact me privately here or post your experience/question to our public forum here for membership’s input.
This time, her owner specified her head should be at the foot of the bed so she can maintain eye contact with her cuckold as directed. It will be easier for her since her hair will make an excellent handle when mounted.
Having said that, it will be some time before she is mounted; first she will be teased, spanked and whipped in front of her husband who has never even swatted her bottom.
By the time her Dom mounts her, she will have cried, she will have orgasmed and she will have tried to beg for her lover’s cock.
