Collaring your pet is much less about the physical control and much more about a physical expression of her submission and the gift of her physical self to you. For me, it’s also about purposely flaunting and violating the societal norms that seek to box us in and tell us how we’re allowed to behave.
When you take these ideas and apply them to a cuckolding situation where the wife collared is not your own - it’s verrrry intense for everyone.
Nothing exercises a cuckold’s submission more than seeing his Domme collared, leashed and kneeling at her Dom’s feet. And, for the Dom, such an expression of submission on behalf of the cuckold’s wife is an incredible turn-on and source of pride in his pets.
A collared, leashed and blindfolded pet awaiting her Master’s command(s). For me, the value of using a blindfold as a Dom has always been to prevent what the submissive sees from prejudicing what they experience.
When a hotwife offers her submission to her lover, it’s a gift not only for him, but also for her cuckold.
I tend to speak most of the submission of the cuckold yet it is the submission of the hotwife to her lover which truly fuels a cuckold marriage. Such submission is often not very overt. For example, the most common forms of hotwife submission for her lover are such things as how she dresses for to please him or how she has trimmed or shaved her most intimate place to be what he desires.
What I wanted to say here is to extend a challenge to hotwives who have not yet offered overt submission to their lover to consider doing so. Such an expression of trust not only forms much deeper bonds between you and your lover, but also between you and your husband.
For a cuckold to witness his wife’s overt submission to her lover is to experience one of the most intense forms of cuckolding. Often this is because the cuckold knows you could never extend such submission to him and will only view such acts when your lover accepts these gifts from you and exercises them.
Some women who are dominant with their husbands worry that deferring to a man, even her lover, will weaken her position of dominance with her husband, but in reality, the opposite is true. The deeper a wife’s submission to her lover, the more fixed the D/s roles become between hotwife and cuckold.
In order for a bull to learn the role of a Dom and understand how to enjoy, guide and help a cuckold couple grow, the couple must extend that opportunity and they do so through their submission. This submission can take mental, emotional and physical forms. Beyond making changes in your outward appearance or behavior to suit your lover, learning new skills can also be considered submission: learning to suck a man’s cock and/or learning to deepthroat his cock; finding yourself eager to swallow for him if only because it’s something you would never do for your husband. Light bondage and spanking are also easy entries into overt submission. Having your cuckold watch as you offer your bottom for a spanking can be incredibly intense for everyone involved, but be quite mild in application.
The multitude of ways to express submission is well beyond the scope of this article, but to discuss your own situation to learn how to proceed, you can contact me privately here or post your experience/question to our public forum here for membership’s input.
